Sunday, 1 December 2013

Gentleman Issue





The Gentleman issue is getting popular recently!
I have viewed quite a few blogs about that issue.
Inspirations always get from popular issue :D
So I just decide to blog about it!
**Yay! finally updating my dusty blog.



Gentleman issue,attracts both sex male and female to concern about it :)
For men/ boys,they will stick to a few question :)
How to become a gentleman?
Do girls in the whole world really love gentleman?
For women/ girls,will always asking for a few questions
Does gentleman exist in this world?
Will I meet one truly gentleman as my BF?


Okay, Let's get start!

What's gentleman?
I'm one of those who passionate to find a man who fullfilled with the gentleman qualities as my soulmate or boyfie! HAHA
It's seems is a impossible mission :/
So, I was changed my mind after searching for the truly dream man for 18 years! LOL
As I said wanted a gentleman is only a dream,a desire to chase off!
Yet, it's too hard to chase :(

Yep! I can say gentleman do exist also do not exist,
because everyone has different opinion. including men themselves.
Dont forget! Gentleman is also what men wanted to transform to!
It's a target for girls, yet for boys!
Every boys do have the gentleman potential.
It's just depend on their own mind set,their goal for how to become a gentleman.

You don't need to be very gentleman in the traditional way. Haha
like what we saw in the 70s 80s 90s movies!
Gentleman must have a thick black mustache with a hat!
Most of the gentleman wearing coats!
Gentleman opens car door for girl!
Hahahahaahhahaha....This affected us a lot! It slightly changed our mind that what gentleman supposed to be :)
Honestly, That is outdated~~~



Hey, now is 21st century!
Throw off all your old thoughts.
Everyone can be a gentleman, Gentleman in our own special unique way!
Why dont you?
you can be a funny gentleman,romantic gentleman
whatsoever that you want to be!
yea, same as girls..be a gentlewoman in our own way..
as comfortable as we can :)
what do you want for, you must work for it!

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Here is some tradition + modern + my some opinion
Briefly talk about gentleman qualities/ characteristics!

How a gentleman should be in my mind.


He always keep his words.
He will do whatever under his capable.
He willing to take challenge and risk.
He must be a generous person. Stingy will shame a man down. He cannot be selfish to anyone.
He suppose to be very helpful to anyone.
He can control his emotional well.
He must respect creatures in this world.
He is considerate.
He will not smoking or doing any indecent behavior without the permission, prevent awkwardness.
He is a attentive. He able to take care everybody feelings.
He able to accept new things.
He knows the responsibility of taking care his family & friends.
He knows how to reassure people.
He must have a positive thinking.
He must be mature in thinking.
He could give anyone answer after his deep thinking.
He is a listener. He must concerned everyone he loves.
He must be brave.
He can protect the ones he want to protect.
He also can be fun, humour, romantic, nerdy.

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There is no perfect gentleman in this world!
nobody could fullfilled all the qualities of gentleman, even though saint also the same.
Be a truly gentleman that you comfort with, all coming from heart, but no fake action to prove you're a gentleman.
*P/S: not all the girls in the world like gentleman, we just admire them.

Here is all about my sharing! :D
Bye :P
 
Jayce Lim♥

Friday, 18 October 2013

第五个月

不知不觉呢,我在中六己经有五个月了。
好难熬的五个月啊~
其实我还很不习惯,也不喜欢中六的一切所有...
学业,考试,老师,朋友统统都是给我压力的一分子!

中六,大马高级教育文凭,并不是一个轻轻松松能度过的求学阶段,
在还未改革之前也被列为全亚洲最难考试之一呢。(不是开玩笑的噢 XD)
不过,它毕竟是大学的前进之路..还是吃香的~
 
但是为何还是有很多大马学子们偏偏选择这条有难,有狭窄的路呢?
我私底下也有问问身边跟我一起求读中六的朋友,
发现大家来来去去都是为了几个理由~

1)有些是因为家境支撑不到学院的学费
2)有些是因为想挑战中六
3)有些是一心想当医生而私人学院太昂贵了,所以只好选择政府大学
4)有些呢,就是为了在中六免费流荡两年,纯粹是为了进私人大学做准备
我呢? 应该是选择1吧~ 

中六往往是那些懒散,不爱做功课,不爱温习,没热诚的学生的致命点!
如果你觉得STPM想你从幼稚园到SPM程度,
就算没读书没做功课考试也会只是B or C的话,那就错了!
告诉你哦~很多在SPM里拿到 8A,9A,10A的学生也未必能四科全数通过噢~
 
准备上中六的小妹小弟们,
你们真的要先考虑,才下定决心是否要往这方面走呢~
本人觉得要在中六存活的好,就要 Study smart,Study hard,Study Hard,还是 Study HARD!

贾斯琳♥

Saturday, 17 August 2013

The letter fullstop.


                    有人说每当大小事情发生时,身边的姐妹就会想办法开导你,陪你癫,陪你诉苦。



This is for the special ones,

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Hopes always dawn upon us!
Life is like see-saw.It fulled of ups and downs
If you're in the up, then you're apart to the down.If you're in the down,   give some efforts to make you up.


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Sometimes you smile much more than me :) jinjia!

如果化妆是伪装,那么我宁愿假装我很美 
Happy then smile, Sad then cry, Hurt then emo.



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Please goes on!


很多过去了的事情回头望下就好了,如果不值得留念的那就再继续走吧~




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Realize.

It's not 'nothing' to you.It's an object,because you bleed.Yet it's an abstract,because feel the hurts.

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Follow you heart



stand up strongly,firmly,proudly,arrogantly.You deserve to live better.

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Yea?



''Humans, we are not alone.Look around, you will find there is a lot of things beside you.'' -- somebody's quote.

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It's ok.


''We are human. We make mistake sometimes'' -- somebody's post.



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Shhh. Keep it secretly :P





Sometimes people around you might be silent,emotional. But remember their hearts not.


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Reveal :p

If one day someone who likes to cry stops crying and starts to be emotional.It's mean he/she hurt.
 If one day someone who likes to silence keeps silence.It's mean he/she cries inside the heart.



My own life formulae

When we lost something important
We will feel disappointed,sad, emotional,hopeless
We collapse,we broke, we cry.

then,
we find inspirations that make us live.
we discover secrets, we find that how amazing it is.
we get advices from friends, family.
we understand the problem,we solve it. 

we start to stand up,we walk.
we feel gratitude because we grow more mature,
yet we live more happily! 

Read it? GET IT?

Love you,
Jayce Lim